post rarely performed based on third-party publications, but this time the Marce send us a gift this issue of the Journal and of The Mercury, and it's so the bone for each one that I bring my glass to not forget. To see if in fact this year I used these tips.
Quick Tips for 2009
First: What you think or dream is not done.
What starts and has not yet completed, is made ... not yet.
sometimes say Chileans conjugate some verbs in a way that leads to false interpretations. For example, if someone asks for one service to another or to an institution, then you know the outcome, he replied: "The becoming" or "That's what we are." This tense does not exist if we want a clear communication and effective management. Things are made or not made, and the consequences of yes or no to respond are paid.
This is very important in the lives of couples in relationships with children, work and social life in general. If we want healthy relationships, the most important thing is the consistency of responses. Otherwise, get a little crazy with our partners, and if this is repeated over time, there is no healthy relationship possible.
In other words, I suggest using the yes and no more frequently in 2009.
Second: When we are content and happy, do not think that is the beginning of happiness. is happiness itself. not hard, leaves, atrapémosla. And again, but not expose ourselves to look back and see why we thought it would, but he had not enjoyed.
Third: Do not fall into the illusion that change, because we speak of change or our processes. Change is a quiet path, personal, Int. The other thing is communication, shared paths, clarifying experience. It is not change.
Fourth us distinguish between complaints and share what we feel.
If another hurts us, makes us suffer attacks us or fails us, we do know, we can see the consequences, but we are responsible for ourselves, not the other, to make changes to avoid pain. Complain to another and make the complaint in the form of relationship is a nice way to not take responsibility for our lives.
Fifth and finally, demand much can be a way to not require anything. Beware of large change projects, are the small steps and the tenderness of our own humanity that lead to big changes.
Paula Serrano.
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