week ends at last.
Ugh, how would appreciate a massage, relax.
Completes a week beginning the program stirred for Special Report and the reporting of abuse against the priest Karadima, since then, the conversations at lunch, at social gatherings, in digital media has focused on various corners, the double standard of the Catholic Church, the questioning of the celibacy, image of authority that a child has to the character as a priest, in order ... But my issue goes beyond the Karadima cure, or celibacy, or the Church, this is not just a matter of obligation to sexual abstinence as the Catholic Church supposedly enacted, no. In addition, if so, remind them that we are free beings, with full freedom of not belonging to an institution which imposes rules with which we disagree. No, which became a priest was by choice and he decided to abuse a child or young person was also his own decision.
The point is: How common are these cases? How many children are abused daily? I tell you a lot more of what we believe and, unfortunately ... and hopefully I make a mistake, we all have a small or small close within our social circle or family who is in real danger of going through this.
some time ago talking to some friends, 80% of them had ever gone through a similar situation ... Eighty percent!, I started out within my inner circle, attempting to broaden the spectrum increasingly ... the percentage change much. Who had been? ... all, cousins, uncles, grandparents, friends of the elder brother. Almost always the inner circle.
Then it hit me How could so many people go through those moments in childhood or adolescence and never, never had anyone noticed? Why so quiet? ... Well, fear and shame. It is amazing how in those moments invalidate the fact of fear, fear of threats of the perpetrator, fear of acknowledging that somehow allowed someone to do the damage (and that I remember having heard also one of the interviews of the program), fear highlight a member of the family or community, etc.
So what? ... What do we do? The issue is how we teach our children to respect more as authority (because for that we are with things, but they are taught, the daemons are up by the jet and leave the brush) but in turn, teach them to discriminate, to to visualize the action limit and teach an immediate defensive reaction to a situation. Sometimes it seems simple, but I'm sure that in practice is far more complex. We can not small nuetsros escort 24 hours a day, at some point were alone and do not know if, despite our efforts, on occasion be at the mercy of an abusive mind.
And then ...? How to educate them in practice to survive? Because I think that not only these days, but always ... this is it. We all want our children to be happy, to be educated, to play, to dream ... and many will grow up well ... but we must recognize that survive childhood, and even more youth, is not the easiest item and must be given the attention it deserves.
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abusers, anything, to trial and sentencing. At the same moment should cease to be priests, or politicians, or whatever. Sexual abuse, that is the crime and therefore must be judged, moreover, is unnecessary.
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